Dear Abby Retires After 39 Years of Service
After a remarkable 39‑year run that began in 1956, Dear Abby announced her retirement, marking the end of a column that has become a staple of American newspaper life.
Her Final Message to Readers
In a heartfelt letter, she thanked her audience for treating her as a friend, recalled the countless joys and struggles shared over the years, and expressed gratitude for the trust placed in her.
She noted that she started writing the column in 1987, after her mother Pauline Phillips had founded it, and said her health remains good while she looks forward to traveling and enjoying a life without deadlines.
Jeanne Phillips also praised her two assistants, Steven Andrews and Jose Fuentes, and assured readers that the column will continue under a competent editorial team.
Helping Families Spot Elder Abuse
Understanding the Situation with Hank
A reader from Missouri described her brother‑in‑law Hank, who is estranged from his own family, manipulates relatives to obtain money, and shows a pattern of financial dependence despite holding a job.
The writer explained that Hank’s wife avoids family gatherings, and that he frequently asks his parents for cash, creating a cycle that worries the in‑laws as they age.
Legal Guidance on Elder Abuse
Dear Abby advised that repeatedly coaxing older adults to spend money for personal gain qualifies as elder abuse, a criminal act that many states prosecute vigorously.
She recommended that the reader and her husband consult an attorney who specializes in elder law to discuss concerns and explore legal protections for the vulnerable parents.
How to Reach Dear Abby
Dear Abby was created by Pauline Phillips and is currently written by Jeanne Phillips, also known as Abigail Van Buren.
For more information, visit DearAbby.com or write to PO Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
